About 15 years ago, I got it in my head that I needed a new watch. I knew EXACTLY what I wanted. It needed to be silver and gold, so that it matched everything. It needed to have numbers around the dial, rather than just tic marks. It needed to have the date. So I started shopping.
I window-shopped. I went to malls. I went to jewelry stores. If I’d known how to shop online back then, I would have done that. Every chance I got, I was looking for this perfect watch. I kept looking and looking and looking. I searched for two years.
TWO YEARS?! Ok, just writing about it makes me shudder to think of the time I spent (wasted) on shopping for a watch. Want to know what brought an end to the madness? I’ll tell you.
I was in a department store, in the watch section, of course, and I saw a Mickey Mouse watch. The face was gold and silver, and I laughed. Something clicked in my head, and my inner voice said, “You know what time it is? Maybe it’s time you stopped taking this all so seriously.”
I bought the watch on the spot, and still have it today. It’s the only one I wear.
It reminds me to stop obsessing, to laugh, to look in different direction for solutions, and that time is precious.
tinaleadbetter says
Perfect story – great reminder! Thanks, Mary…
Mary Cravets says
You’re welcome, Tina!
caregiverswatch says
My watch is a Minnie Mouse and it’s my favorite. Great post Mary.
Stay strong and have a safe weekend. From your Pal from Kalamazoo. Pat
Mary Cravets says
Maybe your watch and my watch should hook up… 🙂
Marty Dobkins says
Yeah, great article. Why do we think everything has to be so perfect??? A watch is a watch…and there are a lot of good ones. And who doesn’t like to shop?! Shouldn’t we spend more time on what really matters like more time with God, our family, friends? It’s the relationships that really matter.
Mary Cravets says
It’s funny how we can get caught in a groove, and don’t even realize it!
Leah Gumm says
love this story! so true!